Balanced masculinity has a love for higher purpose as its cornerstone and from that comes the various balanced qualities that stem from strength and sensitivity. Balanced masculinity has the strength to persist in the face of challenge, is aggressive in its protection of it higher purpose and is focused in its strategy for achieving this higher purpose. These qualities are aimed at protecting, upholding and harnessing its love (the soft underbelly) for it’s higher, life affirming mission. … More How Self Care Led Me to Discover True Masculinity
Ask me to voice ugly truths I have come to grips with in a personal relationship?…. Ummm no.
I’ve realized that I have, in certain relationships, been twisting myself in knots to avoid the laborious act of expressing what needs to be said. As a result of this self created torture, increasing the TLC I give myself to cope with it! This ridiculousness has allowed things to get inevitably and unnecessarily complicated.
I have been living by the mistaken belief that, when things get uncomfortable and awkward in relationships something has gone “wrong”. A lie of course. … More Why Your Self Care Could Be Hurting You
I learned to discriminate between what I call fluff and muscle. Fluff either comforted me, enchanted me, pumped me up or gave me the intellectual high of understanding new ideas.
Muscle was the integration of heart and mind that together, fueled me with power to create tangible, life affirming change. … More How Flow Led To Real Change