There is a massive gaping, throbbing global wound that’s calling out to each and every one of us in ways we need to hear. No one’s privileged existence, regardless of economic status, race, education, “connections”, nationality or gender will come out of this unscathed.
Today I ask of you, what action can you take today to soften your corner of the world? … More Overwhelmed By The Global Chaos? Do This!
This new level of feeling safe within myself unfurled a new inner landscape from within. The old me that saw myself as disciplined, reliable yet fashionably misplaced and dowdy, was now wanting softer, brightly colored, clothes that swayed when I walked and had crisp flower prints. I began noticing women who decorated themselves in ways that stood out to me and took note. I wanted to wear dangling accessories that made tinkling sounds as I moved and wear rose perfume. I didn’t care that I dressed up and smelled as god as I did while just doing laundry. Gone was the Lorena that judged other women who took time to feel pretty, as superficial. … More How Strengthening Your Healthy Masculinity, Blossoms Your Feminine Heart
Understanding the link between how I was fathered and essentially, how I have fathered myself as an adult has been like walking through a dense fog before arriving to clarity. After suppressing my emotions for so long, looking at them felt like taking out a chest full of confusing and chaotic memories. It took years of living more intentionally and reflecting through countless self created painful situations, to become aware of and take action to change my painful patterns. … More 5 Signs Your Inner Man Needs To Grow Up & What Will Help
The tragedy is that while men are generally brow beaten for not having as much self awareness and self regulation as women, any inclination of self awareness when it’s natural and spontaneous is badgered right out of them….Men finding it challenging to inquire within themselves about their needs in heart, mind and body is just the tip of the iceberg of the internal devastation most of them unconsciously live through … More 3 Ways The Man Box Crushes Your Resilience & What To Do About It
Balanced masculinity has a love for higher purpose as its cornerstone and from that comes the various balanced qualities that stem from strength and sensitivity. Balanced masculinity has the strength to persist in the face of challenge, is aggressive in its protection of it higher purpose and is focused in its strategy for achieving this higher purpose. These qualities are aimed at protecting, upholding and harnessing its love (the soft underbelly) for it’s higher, life affirming mission. … More How Self Care Led Me to Discover True Masculinity